Who is the elderly relative? Are you claiming them as a dependent? If you are claiming them as your dependent then you can use the child and dependent care credit if you are paying someone for help while you are at work.
IRS interview to help determine who can be claimed:
https://www.irs.gov/help/ita/who-can-i-claim-as-a-dependent
https://ttlc.intuit.com/questions/3113432-who-can-i-claim-as-my-dependent
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