@stephii94 When all of you live together as a family, the children should only be entered on ONE tax return.
If you are a non-married couple who live together with your child, then only one of you can claim the child(ren) and the one not claiming the child does not enter anything at all on their tax return about the child. The “sharing” of child-related credits you may have heard about is only possible between divorced or never married parents who live apart and share custody and who have a written agreement to share the credits. The child’s SSN can only be entered on one tax return. Any other return with the child’s SSN on it will be rejected. If you are a family, then work out how to share the refund between yourselves.
If the children were already claimed on your return, but you both want the other parent to claim them, then your own return must be amended to remove the children completely. The other parent must file by mail; any attempts to e-file with the children's SSN's will be rejected. He does not have to wait for you to amend. His return can be mailed whenever he has it ready to put in an envelope.
When you mail a tax return, you need to attach any documents showing tax withheld, such as your W-2’s or any 1099’s. Use a mailing service that will track it, such as UPS or certified mail so you will know the IRS/state received the return.
Federal and state returns must be in separate envelopes and they are mailed to different addresses. Read the mailing instructions that print with your tax return carefully so you mail them to the right addresses.
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