You are describing your spouse as your "soon to be ex" --- so assuming you are divorcing, you are going to have an attorney involved--if not now, you will soon. One of the things you will need help from the attorney with is getting those tax returns. If joint tax returns were filed, your name was put on them too and you have a right to get copies. Get the attorney involved.
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