After you file

Being frustrated is justified when you're looking for something you can't find. I completely understand. 

Thank you to everyone on this thread for sharing your wisdom on how to access your returns. Like @xmasbaby0 said, it's common for people to have multiple accounts so you might have to test out multiple options. 
Here's where I was able to download mine: 


You can also access information from accounts.intuit.com and learn about Intuit's dedication to privacy here. 
I hope you're able to find your return. If not, send me a private message and I'll do my best to help you where I can.