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And Efiling is now closed so you have to print and mail your return.  And there was nothing to "fix" on your return.  Yes her amended return will take 16 weeks to process, actually even longer due to Covid-19 this year but it won't affect your return. And won't clear the ssn so you can use it.  You didn't have to wait for her Amended return to process.  You should have mailed your return right away since you have to print and mail it.