Do you mean you did file both jobs and got the refund? The excess Social Security would have been included on that return.
If you had more than one employer and the total of box 4 (only box 4 not box 6) on all your 2019 W2s for Social Security is more than $8,239.80 you get the excess back on your tax return. And it is for each spouse separately, not combined. Check 1040 Schedule 3 line 11 for it. Then Schedule 3 goes to 1040 line 18d.
