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Hi there. Did you ever get an answer to this question? I'm going through the same exact thing with my childs father and cannot get a straight a straight answer from anyone. He got the original 500 for our son based on 2018 taxes and the tax program is trying to give it to me since I claim him 2019 and 2020. 

I also do not want my return held by the irs. 

Thanks!!!