Retirement tax questions

First and foremost, I can't thank you enough for the time and effort you have put into helping me with this.

 

I think the last line of your last response is the whole reason I am stressing over this. I don't want any IRS issues. 

 

I have another call in to fidelity and should hear back by tuesday. I will keep you up to date with any changes.  I am starting to lean toward this being an offset and the lack of L in box 7 eases my apprehensions some, the addition of M would ease them completely. 

 

More to come later