Retirement tax questions

Wow all these comments are so disheartening to read. I filed February 14 & still waiting & WMR has said processing ever since. I got my letter in the mail for the 60 day examination April 12, and 60 days will be up June 11. It’s the 4th. I really can’t afford to wait the additional 60 days everyone’s talking about. I’m 8 months pregnant, broke, with a 2 year old & my husbands disabled. I can’t go Back to work till after this baby so if I have to wait 60 more days we’re just [edited: cruder euphemism for being unfairly impacted in a gross way] .