@dbender333 Sorry for your loss. sounds like your father was withholding your money. How old are you? Seems like you have an issue to take up with your father and possibly the custodian of the funds. If the 1099R says 10,000 was received, where is the rest of the money? Did your dad keep it for rent? DId you have agreements? There are so many unanswered questions.
We need to find where the rest of the funds went to properly answer you. Were they possibly rolled into another retirement vehicle?
You must report the 1099R as received and adjust it if needed but, only if it was rolled over or you have some type of better explanation.
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