I have in fact, attempted this on several occasions over the years and it requires my ex to sign the document, which she has refused to do on each occasion. Dfas can not and will not process this without her signature and I am homebound disabled and living on not much more than this income. I can not afford an attorney, nor can I attent any sort of court cases in person. This income is actually now causing me problems with medicaid and I'm not in a position to handle any of this myself and I no longer have anyone who can help me.
