@maxxpallets-yaho NO! NO!
if you are married you CANNOT file HOH nor can you file SINGLE.
you must file Married-Filing Joint or Married- Filing Separate. Those are your only choices.
https://www.irs.gov/help/ita/what-is-my-filing-status
did you take the time to click the IRS link and answer the questions. it'll be a lot easier that way.
Do you live with your spouse and is the spouse willing to sign the tax return? if yes, then you are to file Married-Filing Joint.
If you live with your spouse, why can't you obtain her SS number? who do you live with (spouse?children? others?) please explain the situation. I feel like I am guessing at what is going on.
