Retirement tax questions

Also, just in case I was not clear in conveying our situation perhaps this should clear things up for Part 2 of form 709:

Part 1

Line 19:  NO

Part 2

Line 1:  234,000

Line 2:  

Line 3:  234,000

Line 4:    38,800

Line 5:   

Line 6:    38,800

Line 7:  Enter 12,060,000 exclusion? OR Enter 4,769,800 credit?  <-- the crucks of my confusion.

Line 8:

Line 9:  12,060,000? OR 4,769,800?

Line 10:

Line 11: 12,060,000? OR 4,769,800?

Line 12:   38,800

Line 13:

Line 14:   38,800

Line 15:    0

Line 16:

Line 17:    0

Line 18:

Line 19:    0