You have a lot of complications and you really should have gone to a tax professional to sort things out. Going back and forth on a forum where you just give us little bits of information at a time often results in an incorrect tax return.
To clarify, correct and expand my "military" comment, these are the qualifying factors to extend the 2-out-of-5 year rule:
such individual or such individual’s spouse is serving on qualified official extended duty—
(i) as a member of the uniformed services,
