Loan from Previous Employer Forgiven, Do I have to report as income?

I was due $80,000.00 this year from an "Employment Contract" from my previous employer.  In 2018, the company let me borrow $30,000.00.  Originally  it was supposed to be deducted fromt he above Payout.  However, due to his kind generosity and the fact that I am struggling, he forgave the loan and paid the full $80,000.00, which I rolled over into an IRA.   MY QUESTION- Do I have to report the $30,000.00 on my tax return.  I do not think he meant for me to have to pay taxes on loan, but I do not know how to tell him to handle?

I get a 1099-NEC each year for Consulting Work done for him.  (2024 is $2500.00).  I was not doing consulting work at the time of the loan so I do not think I should have to pay self employment tax on it.   Is there a way for the company to write off this loan without giving me a 1099, report on something other than 1099-NEC so only state and federal tax have to be paid, any other way to either eliminate or reduce the taxes I have to pay.  If I receive income on a 1099-NEC, taxes will over $10,000.00.  Plus I will have to pay taxes on the money when I withdraw from my IRA to pay taxes.  Trying desperately to save this money for Long Term Care, since I have severe health issues and live alone.    ANY ADVICE OR HELP WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED!