my son’s father hasn’t been involved since 2021 of April. I clean my son and last year and I did so because I’m the one qualified, and that means criteria to claim my child as a dependent my son has not been a dependent of his fathers and years now, but still, he takes me to court from an outdated parenting plan that says he can claim our child, every other year on the years starting in the year 2018 when we signed this paper however since 2020 this is no longer been the reality that we’ve lived since I’ve had 400% custody of my son since April 2021 like I said, but the judge said says I have to amend my taxes and let him claim our son. I should’ve did this cause then it would’ve went through the IRS, but I did not realize, and I refused to do so because he does not qualify to be a dependent of my exes now the judge is completely going behind the IRS back telling my ex he can go to an accountant to decide how much you would have gotten if you claim my son, which, like I said, if you would’ve clean my son, he would’ve got zero because my son would not be dependent of his and hasn’t been for years not financially or physically and now he gets to go to the accountant. Decide how much he owe the IRS would’ve paid him and then they’re going to take that amount and put it on me as a payment that I need to make to him. How is this legal I don’t understand? Like what is wrong with the judge I don’t understand at all. It’s obvious that this is outdated. My son has not been in his father’s life or or vice versa. Neither one of them care to have a relationship I think I care more for them to have a relationship than they do in four years now!!
