No offense, but you ought to try something else.
First of all, @AmyC and @DianeW777 are both NOT answering questions at this time as they're listed as "Expert Alumni".
Second, you've packed a TON of data, figures, dates, and facts into a REALLY LONG post that very few, if any will read, much less post a response.
Lastly, you referred to two different states, HI and MD, which very few, again if any, on this board will be able to assist you. It might be better if you either consulted a local tax pro or used a TurboTax assisted service (which would cost extra but probably would be worth it).
