I found a resolution to this in case it helps others. At some point my wife may have mistakenly proceeded to enter in some info for one of our dependents in this area, which means she listed one of us as disabled or as a student just to see. It wasn't fully filled out, and hence why the form 2441 issue kept coming up. The bug, as I see it from the view of a professional software developer, is that re-visiting the dependent care section and answering "no" doesn't clear this out. I had to answer "yes" and go back in selecting the some bogus answer (6 months of student life) so that I could then delete the dependent.
After doing this I was in the clear. I hope this helps someone else if they get stuck. Taxes are filed. Uncle Sam is happy.
