Deductions & credits

It is extremely rare that MFS  is beneficial, so you may be doing it wrong. There are also special calculations if you live in a Community Property State.  You cannot use HOH if you are married and live together.  Further,  Form 8332 is used only by divorced or separated parents.  See this for more:

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