Hi, Patgada, I am having the same problem this year. My wife parents have been in our house to take care of our children for a couple month and I am planning to pay them with the FSA childcare money (even though, they initially didn't ask for money ). I have email FSA to ask to paper work should I do and I never get any reply from them.
Since your post was from 2019, I am wondering how did you solve this problem. What paper work did you submit to FSA to get the money back and how did you do tax?
Thank you very much.
