You may want to file a joint federal return and file married filing separate state returns.
The
following information will walk you through the process.
Basically
you will be preparing a joint federal return with no state returns. This joint federal return is filed with the IRS.
Next
you will prepare "mock" married filing separate federal returns for
yourself and your spouse. The "mock" returns are not filed with
the IRS, they are used to prepare the
separate state returns to be filed with the states.
The following information contains instructions on how to complete the above steps.
It is followed by each state's filing requirements for military personnel.
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