Married filing jointly with resident and nonresident status across NY and NJ

My wife and I are filing jointly for the first time. She lives and works in New York while I live and work in New Jersey. As per previous advise that was provided to us, we are attempting to file the federal, New York, and New Jersey returns as follows:

 

  • Federal: Married Filing Jointly including both incomes
  • New Jersey: Married Filing Separately including only my income
  • New York: Married Filing Jointly including only my wife's income

We are using TurboTax Online and have the following questions:

  1. After filling out the federal return TurboTax automatically pulls in both wages into both New York and New Jersey state returns. Is there a way to prevent this?
  2. For some reason TurboTax is give an error in the New York return when I try to list my wife as a resident and myself as a nonresident : Tax Screenshot 2025-03-30 221505.png. Is there something that I'm doing wrong?
  3. Can all of this be properly done using TurboTax Online?

Any help would be much appreciated.