Yes, you can file as Married Filing Jointly for both your Federal and New York returns.
New York will tax all your income, as Residents, but give a credit for tax you paid to Connecticut on wages earned there.
Prepare your MFS CT return first, then your MFJ NY return.
Here's more info from CT Dept. of Revenue and also details on How to File a Non-Resident State Return.
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