Virginia's filing rules are a bit complicated when one spouse is a VA resident and the other is not. See Filing Status on page 9 of the VA tax instruction booklet:
https://www.tax.virginia.gov/sites/default/files/vatax-pdf/2022-760-instructions.pdf
Florida, of course, has no personal income tax.
For most married couples, filing a joint federal return is best.
**Answers are correct to the best of my ability but do not constitute tax or legal advice.
