1099-r needs to be changed for the correct resident state - military family

So I have a 1099-R that has my correct address in CA  but that is not my state of residence. My state is Oregon. 

 

I have called the Trust Company who issued the 1099-R to reissue it with the correct address. They pretty much said no - that they really do not know how to do it. 

 

I have not filed my taxes yet for state because I would like this to be resolved before I file the state taxes.

 

Please help - I want it corrected by the Trust company but it sounds like it will probably be a not even though I think it can be done. 

 

What makes this more complicated is that the Self directed IRA - the money was used to purchases land in New Mexico. The "Profit" I have to say I took out is land that I have not sold and do not have any "real" cash. I just have the title to the land. I do not actually have the money in my bank.

 

Who do I file taxes to?

How can I get CA to not be in box #15 on the form 1099-R?

 

Thank you in advance

 

PS - I have done a little research and the more I look the more confuse I am starting to be