Well, I wrote HR and explained how I think I am exempt from CT taxes and my wages are instead subject to NJ tax. They replied that I am NOT exempt from CT. They will not be correcting the CT PFL deduction or adding in deductions for NJ FLI/SUI/DI taxes.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to fill out a CT W4, telling them to withhold CT tax and wait until next year to allocate 0% of my wages to CT (maybe a small percentage if I work from my mom's house in NY occasionally though I am also unsure if that earning is subject to CT tax), and in the meanwhile have my spouse bump up their withholding to cover what we'll eventually need to pay NJ (so we can avoid the estimated tax payments). These lower our take home at the end of the day though theoretically, we'd be getting the money back eventually.
Any further advice?
