Are you aware of the VBTA Act of 2018, which states that if a Servicemember is a legal resident of a particular state for tax purposes, the spouse can unilaterally elect to also be a resident of that same state?
See page 3 of this reference:
https://www.jag.navy.mil/legal_services/documents/Info_Paper_2018_SCRA_Amendments.pdf
And the "Military Spouses" section of this reference:
https://www.defense.gov/Explore/News/Article/Article/1740689/
**Answers are correct to the best of my ability but do not constitute tax or legal advice.
