State tax filing

Do we need to  include a copy of the fed amended return?  I been going back/forth with comptrollers office via email...the prob is that MD wants u to amend the Fed b/c it's a start point for their amended, but the IRS doesn't want u to amend the Fed b/c they dont wanna deal with extra returns to process.  At least turbotax creates the amended Fed return.  I mailed my state w/o the amended fed and hand wrote the fact that I did not amend the fed and submit.  I'm not gonna amend my Fed and submit b/c the ttax rep believes the IRS is gonna refund around mid may and I don't wanna blow that up.