You are correct to file MFJ, as that will give you the most for education credits. But as to who gets what, the tax forms don't work that way. A joint return is just that - joint. Meaning that a single check is issued with both filer's names on it. If a direct deposit, most banks will not accept a direct deposit to joint recipients, if the names of both recipients are not on the account. Not all banks are like that though.
