After you file

Contact your  congressman.  It you try to get a tax advocate yourself it could be months.  The only thing I provided them that got my refund going was the actual check stub showing the amount of taxes taken out.  The 1099r and quarterly statement wasn't proof enough.  My congressman went through a tax advocate but I only dealt with the congressmans office.  I'm so sorry about your situation and I totally understand it!  I wish you the best of luck!!