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I was suppose have mine monday being it was holiday wveryone that was due in monday got friday ! I didnt because of this **bleep** notice never got in mail then says after h put control number in takea uo ti 3 weeks get a refund date!! CRAZY!! where is THE LETTER!! Got a letter i id mysekf with irs but ni refund because if control number si why saying i aucessfully id mysekf?? And why u fet that ketter in a week but not the control bumber letter???  CRAZY!!