@carriemaxfield , many small businesses forego the collection of Use/Sales tax from out of state buyers. In your own state , you know the rate and you know where to pay-in the collected taxes. You are also allowed ( in most states ) to not pay sales taxes on inventory ( not consumables ) that you buy in the state because this will be part of what you sell to the customer and collect the sale/Use tax on the whole amount. Most states ask and expect the buyer to pay use tax on items bought in another state where no sales/use tax was paid. That is my view and I am not an expert on use tax rules in all the states.
Good Luck
pk
