Refund status on irs says sent, but on turbo tax it only shows accepted, and still no money in my account

I filed on january 28th. It was accepted later that evening by the irs. My refund status on the irs refund tracker on February 9th says my refund was approved and sent to my bank on February 9th. Turbotax and the tpg site that takes out fees are still only showing my taxes as being accepted. my bank verified my dd information on my forms as correct, but no deposit has been received or attempted. It is now March 2nd, i cant get through to the irs, or to tpg who takes out the fees. Been trying to get an answer for two weeks. Two questions... Why hasnt turbotax and tpg updated my status along with the irs? And where the heck could my money be? Im getting very upset and angry.