Filed mine and my partner's on Feb 1st, accepted the same day for both of us. I received my letter Feb14th as well and my husband just got his DD date for the 24th. My status bar disappeared from the IRS website and says "It's taking longer to process", I'm assuming due to the letter. I feel better hearing they are just verifying and some people still got theirs but I also keep seeing a bunch of people say it's been like 80 days and still no word from the IRS. That's really devastating to be at their mercy and just "wait".
