After you file

My best friend received this same message. She even filled out to have her federal and state direct deposit but they sent her state in a check yesterday. We are a little confused. Not to mention she filed a few days after me. I don't have the delayed message thing. Mine says "My refund is being processed" for the past 3 days now. I am very close to that 21 day mark and I am getting a little worried. I have never had so many issues. It is so frustrating this tax season. Honestly it makes me feel better to be able to post here and know I am not alone.