I wanted to follow up on my situation:
1) We checked online and my husband's transcript/ Account now reflects our 2020 return and is being processed The entire return is there. We did not receive the #2 stimulus, so we took the credit on our return. We filed MFJ. It also list my son as a dependent. So, this is a win.
2) On my transcript, I still do not have any information on any returns. For the 2020, it says married filed separate. It has my address where I lived 20 years ago. However, on the wages section, they do have some 1099's with my current address. This is so messed up.
I think I may have to make copies of my returns and send them to the IRS because there is no reason they should not have this information. My husband and I have filed jointly for 24 years. Anyway, the wheels of progress will continue to turn.
