what to do about refund ?

Can anybody keep me updated with their status and if they get deposited yet me nd hubby filed joint and accepted 2/12 with estimated date 3/5 nd still nothing. Also can someone tell me how to contact a rep from IRS to see what is up apparently its a 50/50 they will let you know something so u can get ur check or correct errors.  Some families rely on their taxes WTF. How does the IRS screw up this much