Please calm down. First, the IRS did not officially open until Feb 12. Second, it does not process on a First In First Out basis. Third, it announced back in January that returns with refundable tax credits (EIC, ACTC) won't be paid until at least the first week in March.
All that being said, you can arrange to have fewer taxes withheld from your income during the year, so that you do not have to wait for a refund at tax time.
