Ive waited the 21 days had to prove my identity wait 9 wks still no tax return from the IRS it's been 13 wks nothing yet 100 day is unexceptable where's my refund?

When I received my stimulus check my dependents where not on it  when my wife a dependent applied for stimulus was denied reason she was a dependent this was at 8 weeks so my refund was processed or being processed at this time that was 5 weeks ago where's my refund?