After you file

I filed Feb 1st so what the hell do they mean 21 days? And I e-filed and did direct deposit? It's been 90 days! I can't get any real answers either and it's pissing me off that you can't get a person on the **bleep** phone and the irs.Gov doesn't tell you **bleep**! Email them and get an automated response! I love how they can take their time but if we're late they charge us interest ! Are we gonna get interest added for paying us late? Beyond frustrated with the IRS !!? No letter no nothing just stuck out here in limbo!