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I have a tax advocate and she cant even reach anyone. Turbo Tax or IRS marked me deceased after my husband passed 8n December 2017. I havent gotten my 2018, 2019 or the stimulus. She has no ideal when ORS will be back up. I had to re send both 18 & 19 taxes before the shut  down and I havent been able to pay rent in 2 months.