After you file

Thank you ! There is a lot , we’ve been married 6 years and got married at 18 . I was very young so I always allowed him to file for us . Since then he was served with divorce papers but never followed up . We tried working it out so I’ve always let him claim my daughter and I since were married BUT I never knew I had to sign a joint filing . He has never showed me that actual amount of our tax refund he’s always just “told me” he lied and said he wasn’t able to access his turbo tax because it was linked to him military email so I made one to see if with my social I can get access to them . I know the user name but I don’t know the account pass word or his passwords for the two emails he has on line . I know his social and since he’s military I was trying to avoid going directly to the irs . Yes I allowed him to file joint but I never gave him permission to sign on my behalf nor did I know I had to sign because he won’t show me the actual refund...