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I still have not received my amended return refund. It still says received and nothing else when I check WMAR. I call and they tell me not to call back until it has been 16 weeks bc they always take the full 16 weeks. WHAT A RIDICULOUS JOKE> If i ever owe the IRS money, I will be sure to tell them I pay it on my time line not theirs. smdh. how is everyone else's going?