After you file

I filed January 31 and on February 20 my bars disappeared with message still being processed a refund date will provided when available.. today called IRS she said my income tax looks fine I didn't do anything wrong I just got randomly picked to be audited so I have to wait 45 days after March 11 before I get my refund or a letter. Seriously I have the worse luck if my return looks fine then why not give me my money why do I have to wait after March 11 it's barely February 25 so probably won't get it until May grrr