Okay. I thought I was logged in but wasn't. Ugh. I had typed my experience (which sucked/sucks)
I figured out how to send money. So, if anyone got a temporary card number and banking information when you were approved this can help you IF you have Apple pay or PayPal.
With Apple pay I'm not exactly sure how my husband did it but I know a little. He got all the temporary card information from me, some how added it to his Apple pay then sent me money online Western Union. He out did $200 to make sure it worked, when we tried it again it locked Apple pay for up to 3 business days.
With PayPal I added the information as a bank account then sent money to my husbands PayPal, he then transferred it to his NetSpend card and we went and withdrew the money from there.
