Like Kind Exchange or 1031 Exchange?

I sold a rental property in Jan of 2021 and in Feb of 2021 I purchased a new rental in a different state.  Can I treat this as a 1031 exchange or like kind exchange on my taxes, even though I did not have an intermediary handle my proceeds from the first sale?(according to IRS, I have to have).  I read IRS guidelines, it seems to be very specific on the 1031 rules.  I am confused.  It appears on many posts here I can still defer the gain regardless if I used an intermediary for the sale. The proceeds from my sale came directly to me, which I held in the bank to use on my new rental property.  How can I treat this without paying the gain on the sale of my property sold in Jan>