1 rep said I file our girl as my dependent; 2 rep said partner puts girl as her dpndnt bc she provides more bc her account drafts daycare; & prtnr should be head of house

The first representative I spoke with said I should list our daughter as my dependent because I have a higher income.  However later, the second representative told me that my partner should have filed our daughter as her dependent because we are dragging payments for daycare from her bank account, so she would be the one providing more for our daughter. The second representative also said that my partner should be listed as the head of household.