That’s what I’m saying you right with everything you said the only difference is that I’ve always been head of household we’ve been separated for a year I’ve taken care of them financially he stays with her yes most nights I get them on the weekend but every thing that comes from the government she get everything that is deserved for her and the kids anything that I work for does require from a job base I keep for myself anything the government does for the kids I make sure she gets so that’s my problem is that she know even with the separation she still receives it not me I get it but I gave it to her she don’t work I do
