Thanks for your reply. Everything lines up with what I did except I had to say No to the custody agreement because we do not have anything official, which is what I thought TT was asking, i.e., something in writing and/or "blessed" by the courts despite not being officially divorced yet. We simply do it based on what is best for the kids and us. We have been doing it that way for quite some time even though that may be hard to believe! Should I just say we have a custody agreement given we agree on who has the kids and when. Note, one is 20 and in college and the other is 18 now.
