I am sorry about the loss of your spouse. My spouse passed away last year in February. Last year I ended up having to mail in the forms for the same reason as you. The gov cashed my check so I know they received it. Thought I wouldn't have that problem again this year but I am. I will again mail in my completed forms and patiently await to hear something from them. Thanks for posting your problem. Nice to know I am not alone.
